„ … the term contactee is in many ways outdated. The ee ending suggests a passive role in English, as in employee or payee. The er or or endings suggest a more active role as in worker, soldier, mentor.
For those who have joined a contact network, or have carried out contact protocols on their own, reaching out to the intelligence behind the UFO phenomenon can involve much mental, physical and most importantly spiritual work. Thus, in my view, the designation contact worker is superior to contactee... „